What is the Worst Thing About Solo Travel?

What is the Worst Thing About Solo Travel?

The world is full of adventurous souls, discovering new and exciting lands every day, and many of these travellers are doing it solo.  Going it alone can be a rewarding and fulfilling experience, but it is not without its trials and tribulations.  So what is the worst thing about solo travel?

Table for 1For me, it is dining alone.  I can go to a museum, visit a monument, wander around a city to my heart’s content; all quite happily by myself.  However, the challenge for me starts in the evening when I go out for dinner.  And I love dining out; it is an essential part of any holiday or visit to a new place – to enjoy the local cuisine and sample the dishes on offer.  But it is a traumatic experience for the solo traveller, with so many obstacles to overcome.

Where should I go?  Is it busy enough that it might be good?  Or so busy that they won’t want to seat one person by themselves?  And that awkward moment when the waiter/waitress brings two menus because he/she assumes your companion is in the bathroom or running late, and you have to explain to them that it is just you.  Dining alone.  A table for one.  Because you have no-one to eat with.

Then comes the look.  That expression of pity mingled with a touch of surprise and even respect; ah a table for one?!  Of course madam, right this way….  And you wind your way through the tables of happy families, romantic couples, other diners also gazing at you with that same expression.  You can see them wondering; why is she alone?  Where is her boyfriend/husband/lesbian life partner?  They can’t understand why I am there or what I am doing all by myself.

A Sharing Platter just isn't an option for 1
A Sharing Platter just isn’t an option for 1

Once that first ordeal is over with, then comes the quandary of what to order.  Then, especially, is a difficult time for tapas, platters and mezzes as these dishes were all designed to share.  Patatas Bravas on your own really don’t taste as good as they do with a friend.  And how much to order?  Usually if I was treating myself to dinner with friends we would perhaps share a starter, try each other’s main courses and plump for a dessert to finish off.  But three courses all by myself?  Not only does that appear greedy when I do that without others around me for moral support (the “I’ll get a starter if you do” kind of support), but it also lengthens out the process, extending the time I am required to sit there on my own, braving the inquisitive and often judgmental stares from the staff and other diners.  The silver lining is at least there’s no argument about splitting the bill!

But don’t pity me.  I am not fishing for sympathy, or compliments on how brave I am to do this all by myself.  I simply don’t have a choice.  It is either do this by myself, or don’t do it at all.  And to be honest I would much rather do it, than stay at home twiddling my thumbs, wishing I was somewhere else. The important thing for me is to do it.  Get out there!  When I think of all the amazing places I have seen whilst travelling alone I wouldn’t have missed it for the world.  And I have grown and learnt so much from my experiences.

If Tom Hanks can do it, so can you!
If Tom Hanks can do it, so can you!

So for me, although sometimes challenging, the positives of solo travel far outweigh the negatives – and all the experiences you’ll bring home are worth a million funny looks in a restaurant.  It might not be easy but it is always incredibly rewarding – and you get to show off to all your friends back home about how awesome it was!

What do you think?  What are the negatives (and positives) of travelling alone?  I’d love to hear your experiences and opinions!  And keep an eye out for my tips on solo travel coming soon – but don’t wait for that, just book your trip!

3 thoughts on “What is the Worst Thing About Solo Travel?

  1. Dining alone can be a pleasurable experience!
    I have eaten some truly memorable meals alone. Sometimes I have been invited to dine with other fascinating solo travellers!

    For me, without a doubt there are two far worse things about travelling alone.

    Crucial is the discriminatory “singles supplement” that blights the financing of solo travellers.

    All solo travellers should start challenging the singles supplement, on the grounds of equal opportunities discrimination against single travellers. It can make travel, beyond staying in YHA style dormatories prohibitably expensive for singles.

    Worse still is that all too often, single rooms in hotels are usually located at the back of hotels, with views over dustbins if anything at all.

    I am more than happy to pay for a double room, to occupy on my own, but I truly resent paying more for that double room, than a couple, because I am occupying it alone!

    Falling ill whilst travelling alone can be unpleasant. I have had the misfortune to be sufficiently ill as to end up in local hospitals through allergies twice. You end up at the mercy of hotel staff and other total strangers in the case of falling ill as a solo traveller!

    Thankfully staff in hotels tend to be particularly considerate of single travellers and will often oblige with exceptional service and help when it is needed!

  2. Hi Fiona,
    You’re absolutely right – in particular the single supplement is another pet hate of mine, why should rooms be charged per person when the hotel will do the same amount of laundry, provide less service as I am alone, and will actually save money on water, toiletries and breakfast! All great points, thanks for sharing!
    Best,
    Claire

  3. Thanks Claire!
    We should be angry but active when it comes to the singles supplement, maybe we need to form a “society of solo travellers” and seek media attention about the injustice of the singles supplement?

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